Our 12 Relationship Archetypes guide has officially become the most popular resource on our website. Tens of thousands of singles and couples have explored these patterns to better understand what they need and how to create a fulfilling life and partnership. But reading about them is only the first step. The real breakthrough happens when you identify exactly which archetype is driving your … [Read more...] about What’s Your Relationship Archetype? New Quiz!
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Top Two Principles for a Successful Relationship
As a relationship professional for over 40 years, a child of divorce who has been divorced twice and finally found his soul mate (we celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary this year) I’ve learned a lot about what it takes to have a happy, successful, fulfilled life and relationship. First, let’s acknowledge that there are no credible research or “facts” that can answer this question. … [Read more...] about Top Two Principles for a Successful Relationship
FAQ: Can Relationship Requirements be Flexible?
FAQ: Can Relationship Requirements be flexible? We're making all this stuff up. There is no scientific study or evidence about the existence and behavior of Requirements so nobody, including me, gets to have the last word about it. First, a bit of background about what prompted this FAQ: You may or may not know that in 2017 Darlene and I sold our house in Silicon Valley where we raised our kids … [Read more...] about FAQ: Can Relationship Requirements be Flexible?
Making Important, Life Changing Decisions
Q: How can I get help to make a big life-changing decision, such as changing careers or deciding whether to have kids? Should I see a therapist first? After more than 40 years as a counselor, then therapist, then coach, I can tell you that the most important thing needed for important life decisions is Clarity. Clarity about who you are and what you want, meaning your big picture, long term … [Read more...] about Making Important, Life Changing Decisions
Is It Too Late to Start Over?
Divorce or widowhood can be devastating and painful. After initially recovering from divorce or loss of a spouse and adjusting to your new life, "Is it too late to start over?" is a common question and a great sign that you're ready to move forward because you want to believe that it’s not too late. TIP #1: Rephrase "Is it too late to start over?" to “HOW can I start over?” One of the simplest … [Read more...] about Is It Too Late to Start Over?
Should I Stay or Should I Go
Should I Stay or Should I Go ebook Guidelines and Strategies for Making This Life Changing Decision as Clearly, Positively, and Confidently as Possible "Should I Stay or Should I Go" is one of the most common questions we get from our clients who are agonizing over their relationship, desperately wanting to make the right choice and wishing they had a crystal ball to foresee the future … [Read more...] about Should I Stay or Should I Go
