Our 12 Relationship Archetypes guide has officially become the most popular resource on our website. Tens of thousands of singles and couples have explored these patterns to better understand what they need and how to create a fulfilling life and partnership. But reading about them is only the first step. The real breakthrough happens when you identify exactly which archetype is driving your … [Read more...] about What’s Your Relationship Archetype? New Quiz!
Coaching Singles
Free PDF: A Coach’s Guide to Therapy for Stuck Clients
This FREE PDF guide addresses five critical questions for professional coaches working with a client who is “stuck” due to internal obstacles: Click below for free immediate access, no registration necessary. Please share this important information with your colleagues! … [Read more...] about Free PDF: A Coach’s Guide to Therapy for Stuck Clients
The Role of Ego in Life and Relationship Coaching
"Ego" is Latin for the word "I." The human ego is fascinating. It appears to be the center and source of "self," yet it gets in the way of our goals and relationships and even dealing with reality (e.g. "denial"). The most important paradigm shift and skill for anyone who wants to "coach" life or relationships is to accept that the highest priority in doing so is Empowerment simply because … [Read more...] about The Role of Ego in Life and Relationship Coaching
Top Two Principles for a Successful Relationship
As a relationship professional for over 40 years, a child of divorce who has been divorced twice and finally found his soul mate (we celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary this year) I’ve learned a lot about what it takes to have a happy, successful, fulfilled life and relationship. First, let’s acknowledge that there are no credible research or “facts” that can answer this question. … [Read more...] about Top Two Principles for a Successful Relationship
How to Coach Decision Making
Most times in life a decision isn't a clean, easy "Yes" or "No" and almost all significant choices and decisions that a client might bring up with a coach usually include unavoidable, undesired consequences and downsides. This makes decision making an incredibly common and important coaching topic, agenda, and skillset. In coaching relationships a simple list of pros and cons, even weighted, is a … [Read more...] about How to Coach Decision Making
FAQ: Can Relationship Requirements be Flexible?
FAQ: Can Relationship Requirements be flexible? We're making all this stuff up. There is no scientific study or evidence about the existence and behavior of Requirements so nobody, including me, gets to have the last word about it. First, a bit of background about what prompted this FAQ: You may or may not know that in 2017 Darlene and I sold our house in Silicon Valley where we raised our kids … [Read more...] about FAQ: Can Relationship Requirements be Flexible?
