Relationship Blog
I’ve noticed that most life and relationship coaches seem to understand the importance of “empowerment” and removing “ego” as important reasons for not playing “expert” and giving our coaching clients advice. When you’re helping functional people, this…
“You don’t need to be an expert to coach, you just need to apply your coaching skills expertly.” – David Steele The skills of professional coaching are universal and enable you to coach anybody about anything. But while you can coach “anybody,” you can’t…
Coaches seem drawn to limiting beliefs (sometimes referred to as “self-sabotaging thoughts” or “gremlins”) like moths to a flame. It is distressing as a coach to see your client holding themselves back and sabotaging themselves and you understandably want to do something…
Q: How can I get help to make a big life-changing decision, such as changing careers or deciding whether to have kids? Should I see a therapist first? After more than 40 years as a counselor, then therapist, then coach, I can tell you that the most important thing needed for important life decisions…
I’ve been corresponding with the folks at Filter Off, a new video speed dating platform that enables coaches and matchmakers to host virtual dating event, at no charge! While it’s free to host and attend events, users become part of the Filter Off community and receive their newsletter…
Here’s a recent question from an RCI trainee- “What is the best response when your client tells you he/she will not be okay if it does not work out how they hope.” Before we address this common situation, let’s define terms: Hope: A desire for something to happen. Goal: A…
