
RCI's
10 Year Anniversary!
Help us celebrate by wishing us Happy Anniversary and let us know how
RCI has made a difference for you here
New and improved Communication Map now
available!
Simple and easy to
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less than an hour
Universal- works for all
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Designed to quickly and
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The
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FREE TRAINING:
Introduction
to Relationship Coaching
Starts August 7th
Learn how to coach
singles, couples, and develop a successful Relationship Coaching
practice, taught by RCI founder David Steele and his teaching staff.
Introduction to Relationship Coaching
includes 3 one-hour tele-classes, Tuesdays, August 7, 14, and 21;
9:00am pacific/Noon eastern.
Class
#1 |
How
to Coach Singles |
August 7 |
Class
#2 |
How
to Coach Couples |
August 14 |
Class
#3 |
How
to Build a Successful Relationship Coaching Practice |
August 21 |
Each class includes
practical information and materials you can use immediately in your
practice.
To register (it's free!) sign
up here
Can't make our training
dates/times? Each class is recorded for those unable to attend, and we
also offer an ON-LINE
VERSION
Please share with your
colleagues!
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Free Conscious Mating Tele-Seminar
Series
Wednesday,
August 22, 5:30pm pacific/8:30pm eastern

Conscious Mating:
Deciding "Is This the One?"
With
David Steele and Linda Marshall
When
singles become pre-committed couples they ask themselves "Is this the
right relationship for me? Is this 'The One' for a lifetime
commitment?" Fearing relationship failure, many avoid making this
decision, and as a result the marriage rate is declining.
Most
of us want a fulfilling committed relationship. Our goal in Conscious
Mating is to provide you the information and strategies for answering
the question "Is this the right relationship for me?"
In
this program you will learn:
- How to identify
relationship red flags and danger signs
- How to know if
you're talking yourself into (or out of) a relationship because of fear
- Our #1 Strategy for
determining "Is this 'The One?'"
- Three powerful
questions you need to ask yourself before considering commitment
- Nine areas of a
relationship to evaluate for decision-making
- How to get off the
fence, "Be the Chooser" and live happily ever after with your soul mate
- And more!
No need to register! To
access this seminar use this link-
www.ConsciousMatingSeminar.com
As a subscriber you will
receive reminders a few days prior and the day of the seminar.
Can't attend? No problem.
The recordings of all our programs are available free at www.consciousrelationshippodcast.com
Free Conscious
Relationship
Tele-Seminar Series
On the second Thursday of each month we
conduct a free tele-seminar on relatioships featuring top experts!.
Thursday,
August 9, 5:30pm pacific/8:30pm eastern
No More Mr. Nice Guy! Getting What You Want
in Love, Sex, and Life
With Robert
Glover, Ph.D.
- Too concerned about
what other people think of you?
- Spend too much time
taking care of other people?
- Having a hard time
making your intimate relationships work?
- Frustrated with your
sex life?
In No
More Mr. Nice Guy!, Dr. Robert
Glover presents a proven plan to get what you want in love, sex and
life. Whether you're single and looking for love or in a relationship
that you want to become all it can be, Dr. Glover will help you
identify your own self-defeating behaviors and find what you're looking
for.
In
this program you will learn-
- How to stop seeking
approval and make your needs a priority
- How to build healthy,
vibrant relationships
- How to tell the truth
with love
- How to set the tone
and take the lead without being controlling
- Three rules for great
sex
No need to register! To
access this seminar use this link-
www.ConsciousRelationshipSeminar.com
As a subscriber you will
receive reminders a few days prior and the day of the seminar.
Can't attend? No problem.
The recordings of all our programs are available free at www.consciousrelationshippodcast.com
Feature Article:
Helping Your Clients Identify Dating Red Flags
by David Steele
Below is a Dating Red
Flags Checklist to help singles identify possible red flags in a
prospective relationship
I. Projecting the Future:
1.
_____ Would I want to spend the rest of
my life with
this
person exactly as they are?
2.
_____ Would I want this person to raise my child?
3.
_____ Would I want my child to be exactly like this
person?
II.
Are You Talking Yourself Into a Relationship?
4.
_____ Do I want to rescue or "help" them because I
see their potential?
5. _____ I love the way they look or
their status and it
builds
my self-esteem to be with them.
6.
_____ We have some things in common and so I'm
avoiding looking at glaring differences.
7.
_____ They appear to be totally different than people
I've been with in the past.
8.
_____ I'm focusing on one important
quality (money,
sex,
fun, humor, etc) and ignoring unmet
requirements.
III.
Danger Signs
9. _____
Reacts to frustration with anger, rage, blame
10. _____
Blames others or circumstances for life situation
11. _____
Tries to control everything, including me
12. _____
Immature, impulsive, and/or irresponsible
13. _____
Emotionally distant or void, aloof
14. _____
Still pining for a past relationship
15. _____
Wants me to make their sad life better
16. _____ Married or
otherwise unavailable to commit to me
17. _____ Active addiction, addictive behavior
(rationalized as "not a problem")
IV.
Other Common Red Flags
18. _____ Is
pessimistic and negative about things
that matter to me
19. _____
Lacks integrity in dealing with people, money, etc.
20. _____
Judgmental attitude toward themselves & others
21. _____
Unwilling to self-examine, accept feedback,
take responsibility
22. _____
Doesn't keep agreements
23. _____
What they say about themself doesn't match
reality
24. _____ Emotional
roller coaster, recurring or regular
emotional drama
25. _____ This isn't
what I really want, but I don't want
to be alone
26. _____ Changeable,
inconsistent behavior
27. _____ Inability to listen
28. _____ I notice myself trying to change this person to fit
what I want, instead of accepting them for who
they are
29. _____ Talks too
much (especially about self),
monopolizes conversation
30. _____ Overly quiet,
withdrawn
Results
A. Total checked items from Section II, III, and IV _______
B.
Circle the checked items that need close attention,
decision-making,
or require more information.
C.
On a scale from 0 (Not at all) to 100 (Perfect fit)
my minimum score for considering any
relationship is _______
D. Using the above scale I score this potential
relationship _______
E.
Based upon the above results, I-- should
/ shouldn't
(circle
one)
proceed dating this potential
partner.
Note:
If it's clear you should not proceed dating this potential partner and
you have any difficulty moving on, we strongly suggest showing this
checklist to your best friend, close family member, therapist or coach
and get the support you need to be "The
Chooser."
Source:
This checklist was created by Linda Marshall and David Steele, with
invaluable and much appreciated input from RCI coaches.
© 2007
Relationship Coaching Institute– All rights reserved.
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Invitations
Invitation #1
Please share this newsletter with a colleague. There is a
tremendous need for our services, and we need to work together.
Relationship Coaching is in its infancy, and we must collaborate to
build our market niche and position as a resource of wide appeal for
anyone who wants a successful relationship.
Invitation #2
I
invite you to listen to the following introductory recordings 24 hours
a day at your convenience by visiting
http://relationshipcoachinginstitute.com/audio/index.htm
- Commitment: The
Secret Ingredient to Relationship Happiness
- Introduction to
Relationship Coaching
- Conscious Dating for
Relationship Success
- Conscious Mating: Is
This the Right Relationship for Me?
- And more!
Invitation #3
I invite you to join our free
Introduction to
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To subscribe to this newsletter, our newsletter for SINGLES, our
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Invitation #5
To learn more about Relationship Coaching this article is a great place
to start-
Relationship
Coaching: New Hope for Singles and Couples
Invitation #6
To learn more about Relationship Coaching Institute check out-
RCI:
More Than Relationship Coaching Training
How
do you like our newsletter? Your feedback is welcome! Until
next time....
Best
regards,
David Steele, MA, LMFT
Relationship Coach
CEO and Founder of Relationship Coaching Institute
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