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Relationship Coaching News
October 2004

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In this issue:

  1. Announcements
  2. Congrats
  3. Feature Article: "The Couples Circle"
  4. Invitations

Announcements

  1. Free Training Begins October 5th
  2. Free Tele-Seminar October 6th- "Getting the Appointment"
  3. Join our October Practice Building Intensive!
  4. 8-Week "How to Get Clients Full Practice Training" starts Nov 3rd
  5. RCI Conference Calls

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1. FREE TRAINING BEGINS OCTOBER 5TH

Learn how to coach singles, couples, and develop a successfu Relationship Coaching practice, taught by RCI founder David Steele and his teaching staff.

"Introduction to Relationship Coaching"- 3 one-hour teleclasses, Tuesdays, Oct 5, 12, 19, 2004; 9:00am pacific/Noon eastern.

-Oct 5: Class #1: How to Coach Singles
-Oct 12: Class #2: How to Coach Couples
-Oct 19: Class #3: How to Build a Successful Relationship Coaching Practice

Each class includes practical information and materials you can use immediately in your practice.

Please share with your colleagues! Register here

Can't make our training dates/times? Each class is recorded for those unable to attend, and we also offer an ON-LINE VERSION.

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2. FREE TELE-SEMINAR WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 6

"Getting the Appointment"
with Master Sales Trainer Eric Lofholm

Getting clients usually depends upon getting your prospects to make an appointment with you for an initial consultation.

Eric will provide proven strategies for private practice professionals to get that initial appointment so you can convert more of your prospects into paying clients.

Eric Lofholm has trained tens of thousands of sales professionals nationwide. Many of Americas top companies hire Eric regularly to train, motivate, and inspire their sales teams. His clients have added millions of dollars in sales to their record after attending Eric's energetic and groundbreaking seminars.

Don't miss this seminar- put it on your calendar today!

9am pacific/Noon eastern on Wednesday October 6

No need to register. This seminar is FREE for subscribers of our free monthly practice-building newsletter How to Get Clients.

To subscribe and receive your invitation to this seminar, please visit http://www.buildingyouridealpractice.com

Please share with your colleagues!

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3. JOIN OUR OCTOBER PRACTICE BUILDING INTENSIVE

This popular 90-day program has helped hundreds of private practice professionals build their ideal practice.

  • Weekly conference call on Thursdays, 9am pacific/noon eastern
  • Recorded programs available by telephone and internet audio if you miss a conference call
  • Step-by-step program with all the detailed information needed to complete each step
  • Online community for support and feedback
  • Led by David Steele and a support team of "Apprentices"

For more information please visit http://www.buildingyouridealpractice.com/practicebuildingintensive.html

(Members of RCI and BYIP register by e-mailing

I look forward to having you join us!

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4. EIGHT-WEEK FULL PRACTICE TRAIING LAUNCHES IN NOVEMBER

If you do not yet have a full practice, this program is for you!

You must survive before you can thrive. To survive in private practice you must master the skills and strategies for getting clients.

This 8-week program includes:

  • Weekly one-hour teleclass, Wednesdays 3pm pacific/6pm eastern
  • Step-by-step e-mailed assignments
  • E-mail discussion list for support and feedback
  • Supplemental audio recordings for missed classes, more info
  • E-version of the "How to Get Clients Toolkit."

The pilot version of this program went exceptionally well, receiving comments from participants such as:

=> "I really like the way the content is organized. It seems obvious, simple and easy while being rich and deep."

=> "Thorough delivery and materials. It's like having a consultant to guide you through to a successful practice. I wish I had this sooner!"

=> "This program is dynamite!"

Please join us!

Wednesdays, November 3rd – December 22nd 3:00pm pacific / 6:00pm eastern

For more information and to register, please visit
http://www.buildingyouridealpractice.com/practicebuildingintensive.html

(Members of RCI and BYIP register by e-mailing )

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5. RCI COACH CONFERENCE CALLS

~ October 5; Singles Coaching with Lynne Michelson
~ October 19; Couples Coaching with Linda Marshall
~ EVERY WEDNESDAY; RCI Member Support Tele-Forum with David Steele

Our conference calls are FREE to RCI Coaches, and fall on the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month, 2:00pm pacific/5pm eastern. The RCI Member Support Forum meets Wednesdays at 11am pacific/2pm eastern. A reminder including the bridge # is sent prior to each call on our listserv.

Congrats!

CONGRATS TO Mari Smith (San Diego, CA) who writes:

"I am thrilled to share with you that I have been invited to be a guest host on Get Ready for Love RADIO with host Viveca Stone Thursday, September 30th. Our first hour is dedicated to interviewing ROBERT & KIM KIYOSAKI (Rich Dad Poor Dad / CashFlow Game)!!

TO LISTEN- go to this link: http://www.getreadyforlove.com and
click on ARCHIVES"

CONGRATS TO Sue Bates (Seattle, WA) who writes:

"Here are some WINS from the July PBI:

-Got my Website set up to market the singles program
-Set up a database with shopping cart solutions
-Sent out follow-up e-mail to do a free consult
-Got 3 new clients as a result of all this!
-Created bookmarks (10 principles of conscious dating) to hand
out at events, they have been received very well
-Lots of confidence and support to put myself out there and get
this thing going
-Invited to do an article in a local magazine in the Northwest
-Invited to speak at a singles event

So, looking back over the past 3 months, I have done a lot to launch my new singles program. Thanks David and Diana for all the helpful info and encouragement and all the people on the calls, I really looked forward to them each week."
Sue

CONGRATS TO Elyse Killoran (Hauppauge, NY) who writes:

"I've been totally caught up for the last week with putting up my new project -- the New Online Prosperity Game. It launched on Wednesday and we have over 2330 people registered to play.

We've worked out most of the glitches (read- learned what silly things people were misunderstanding and created FAQs to set them on the right track) and I can finally breathe freely!"

Check out Elyse’s innovative prosperity program at http://www.choosingprosperity.com/

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Our coaches are certainly committed, talented, and making things happen! It is my honor to be part of this community that is making such a difference in the lives and relationships of others.

Have a win you would like to share? Any graduates from your RCI coaching 'find the love of their life and the life that they love?' Please pass it on and we'll celebrate it!

The Couples Circle

By David Steele

I first learned about the concept of a Couples Circle when Maggie and I spent the weekend at Harville Hendrix’s ranch in New Mexico helping to form "Imago Couples International;" a new non-profit peer support organization for couples. For more info see http://www.imagocouples.org

Since then, it has been our goal to start one in our area, which we were able to do after Hedy and Yumi Schleifer’s "Adventures in Intimacy" couples workshop we sponsored last year. One of our agendas for that workshop was to connect with local couples who might be interested in getting together.

What is a "Couples Circle?"

I define it as a peer support group of couples seeking to deepen their relationship. In my opinion, being in a fulfilling long-term committed relationship requires sustained effort, and on-going support to survive and thrive.

How does a Couples Circle work?

We meet monthly for two hours on a Sunday afternoon, rotating our meetings at each other’s homes. The couple’s home in which we are meeting are the "hosts" for that meeting.

Our meeting format is:

  1. Reading: Open meeting with a reading chosen by host
  2. Appreciations: Going around the circle, each person shares with their partner 5 things they appreciate about them, the receiver mirroring each one, then 5 things they appreciate about themselves, which is also mirrored.
  3. Dialogue: One couple conducts a dialogue, supported by the group. We use the format suggested by Imago Couples International
  4. Debrief: After the dialogue we share our reactions and give feedback
  5. Planning: At the end of the meeting we plan the next date and location

We have five couples in our Couples Circle, and each meeting has been powerful, uplifting and good for our relationship. Everything that happens between one couple- a thought, feeling, want, need, appreciation, issue, etc, is usually something that touches us all, as the ups and downs of being in a relationship are pretty universal. We are able to learn and benefit from witnessing and supporting other couples going through what we go through.

It is important to note that each couple has graduated from Hedy and Yumi’s couples workshop, so we have learned skills and tools that we use to dialogue and support each other effectively.

Each couple seems genuinely motivated to work on their relationship, is open and supportable to the group, and able to provide support positively and without judgment. I feel truly blessed to have them in our life supporting my relationship with Maggie, and they seem to be deeply impacted by our circle as well.

Joining or Forming a Couples Circle

I believe the Couples Circle is a simple and very powerful relationship support and development vehicle. As founder of Relationship Coaching Institute, Board member of Imago Couples International, and a member of a couple relationship, I would like to see peer-led Couples Circles all over the world.

However, the Couples Circle is not for everyone. Couples in trouble that do not have the skills to contain reactivity and follow a structured dialogue process are not appropriate for a peer support group and should work with a therapist. Though not required, I highly recommend couples desiring to form or join a couples circle to first learn dialogue skills, either on their own using self-help books or by participating in a workshop that teaches these skills (see below for recommended resources).

RECOMMENDED RESOURCES

  1. "Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples" by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
  2. "Getting the Love You Want Workbook : The New Couples' Study Guide" by Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
  3. Imago Couples International, a non-profit peer resource for couples. http://www.imagocouples.org
  4. To locate a therapist or workshop to learn dialogue skills http://www.imagorelationships.org
  5. Free resources for couples including a "Communication Map" dialogue process- http://www.partnersinlife.org
  6. Hedy and Yumi Schleifer’s "Adventures in Intimacy" workshops for couples- http://www.hedyyumi.org

© 2004 by David Steele / All rights reserved /
www.relationshipcoachinginstitute.com

Invitations:

  • I invite you to share your announcements, wins, coaching or practice tips with the rest of us. Be visible! Let's connect! Send them to me at
  • I invite you to share this newsletter with a colleague. There is a tremendous need for our services, and we need to work together. Relationship Coaching is in its infancy, and we must collaborate to build our market niche and position as a resource of wide appeal for anyone who wants a successful relationship. To pass the word about us to a friend or colleague, please visit http://www.buildingyouridealpractice.com/tellafriend.html
  • I invite you to join our on-line community of helping professionals.
  • I invite you to listen to the following introductory recordings 24 hours a day at your convenience online. (some are also available by telephone):
    • Introduction to Relationship Coaching
    • Finding The Love Of Your Life AND The Life That You Love
    • Conscious Dating For Relationship Success
    • All About RCI
    • Practice Building Intensive (sample conference call)
    • Radical Thoughts on Converting Prospects to Clients
    • How To Design Compelling Marketing Strategies That Attracts Clients
    • And more!
  • I invite you to get the support you need to be successful in your practice. We are available for information, training, ideas, mentor coaching, etc.
  • If you are a coach or therapist who received this from a colleague, I invite you to visit our web site and contact us for information on joining us and becoming a RelationshipCoachingInstitute Relationship Coach. Ask about getting a free copy of our introductory audiotape, and about our free teleclasses.
  • To subscribe to this newsletter, our newsletter for SINGLES, or our newsletter for COUPLES, or our PRACTICE BUILDING newsletter, see this page.
  • For a description of RCI relationship coaching trainings, schedule, and enrollment info, visit http://www.relationshipcoachinginstitute.com

How do you like our newsletter? Your feedback is welcome! Until next time....

Best regards,
David Steele, MA, LMFT
Relationship Coach
CEO and Founder of Relationship Coaching Institute

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