How to Eliminate the #1 Destroyer of Relationships
Bliss Coaching Training Finally Here!
RCI Conference Calls
------------------------------------------------------------- 1. FREE TRAINING BEGINS OCT 14TH
Learn how to coach singles, couples, and develop a successful
Relationship Coaching practice, taught by RCI founder David
Steele and his teaching staff.
"Introduction to Relationship Coaching"-
3 one-hour teleclasses, Tuesdays, Oct 14, 21, 28;
9:00am pacific/Noon eastern.
October 14: Class #1: How to Coach Singles
October 21: Class #2: How to Coach Couples
October 28: Class #3: How to Build a Successful Relationship
Coaching Practice
Each class includes practical information and materials you
can use immediately in your practice.
Please share with your colleagues! To register, visit
Can't make our training dates/times? Each class is recorded
for those unable to attend, and we also offer an ON-LINE
VERSION. For more info visit
http://www.relationshipcoachinginstitute.com/forms/freeteleclass.htm
--------------------------------------------------------------- 2. FREE TELE-SEMINAR- GETTING SLIGHTLY FAMOUS
Learn how to:
-Get consistent media attention
-Use speaking engagements to cultivate your target market
-Become a center of influence within your industry
-Leverage the Internet to its full potential
-Create ancillary "info-products" for additional revenue and
build public awareness
Presented by Steven Van Yoder, author of “Get Slightly Famous:
How to Become a Celebrity in Your Field and Attract More Business
with Less Effort.”
Wednesday October 8th; 9am pacific/Noon eastern.
(rescheduled from Oct 1st due to bridge problems)
This seminar is FREE to subscribers of Ken and David's monthly
practice-building newsletter “How to Get Clients.”
No need to register. Details are published each month in YOUR
PINNACLE PRACTICE newsletter and on their website at
http://www.buildingyouridealpractice.com
For more info and to subscribe to their newsletter, visit
http://www.BuildingYourIdealPractice.com/freeseminar.html
Next Month's Program: SECRETS OF SUPERSTAR NETWORKING with
special guest Leni Chauvin
Please share with your colleagues!
--------------------------------------------------------------- 3. ELIMINATE THE #1 DESTROYER OF RELATIONSHIPS
NEW book by Paul and Layne Cutright! "HOW TO GET OVER IT- FOR
GOOD." Learn the Secret to Eliminating Forever the #1 Destroyer
of Your Most Important Relationships.
If you are ready to rid your life of hurt feelings, blame, anger,
upsets, arguments and misunderstandings . . . then get ready to
learn a profound secret that will change your life and
relationships forever.
In this practical step-by-step program, Paul and Layne show you
exactly how you can uncover the real cause of any problem or
upset, stop the pain and halt the slide toward more upset and
disappointment, every single time.
The result: joyful, close and fulfilling relationships that are
no longer poisoned by bad feelings, hurt, anger, and the
inevitable "distance" that follows.
This book will reveal to you the newest and most powerful
conflict resolution tool ever created - and the last you will
ever need.
You will learn a simple, easy to learn, step-by-step proprietary
method to neutralize, clarify, and resolve any upset you may
encounter . . . with lovers, business partners, co-workers,
family members, children and any other relationship that is
important to you . . . even unsettling news you see on the
television or other experiences you have in life . . . absolutely
anything at all that upsets you in any way.
You will not find this knowledge or these tools any place else.
$19.95 AND includes a 100% money-back guarantee-
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--------------------------------------------------------------- 4. BLISS COACHING TRAINING FINALLY HERE!
We are excited to announce our first ever Bliss Coaching
Training.
When I founded RelationshipCoachingInstitute/Relationship Coaching Institute
in 1997, my vision was to develop a 5 stage model of relationship
coaching along with cutting-edge tools and concepts for each
stage. Being a linear guy, I started with singles in the
relationship Readiness stage by developing a “Relationship
Success Program for Singles,” then Attraction stage coaching, a
“Partners In Life” program for couples, and now, finally, Paul
and Layne Cutright develop for us a cutting-edge Bliss Coaching
program to complete our curriculum and fulfill my original
vision.
RCI BLISS COACHING TRAINING
With Paul & Layne Cutright, Master Relationship Coaches
RCI Directors of Advanced Couples Coaching
Living in bliss in your relationships is largely a matter of
removing the barriers to the presence of bliss waiting to fill
your relationships. The Bliss Coaching Program will help you do
just that.
In this 10 week training you will learn distinctions and skills
that will give you x-ray vision into the hidden dynamics of
relationships, revealing the hidden barriers to a couple's
natural state of bliss. You will help your clients gain a greater
sense of freedom and control in their relationships and access
deeper and more satisfying states of happiness, joy and bliss.
For RCI Coaches only, Wednesdays October 15 thru December 17, 6pm
Eastern, 3pm Pacific. Watch RCI listserv for registration info.
~ October 7; Singles Coaching with Laurie Cameron
~ October 14; Practice Development with Ken Donaldson
~ October 21; Couples Coaching with Linda Marshall
~ EVERY MONDAY; RCI Member Support Tele-Forum with David Steele
Our conference calls are FREE to RCI Coaches, and fall on the
1st, 2nd, and 3rd Tuesday of each month, 2:00pm pacific/5pm
eastern. The RCI Member Support Forum meets Mondays at 3pm
eastern.
Welcome New RCI Coaches!
The following coaches joined our ranks this past month:
Marcia Augustine, Kennesaw, GA
Belinda Burum, Acton, MA
Jeremy Castlino, Caringbah, NSW, Australia
Laura Dippel, MBA, Denison, TX
Lili Matsudam MBA, Chicago, IL
Susan Moore, MSW, Pittsburgh, PA
THANK YOU for telling your colleagues about RCI!
Congrats!
CONGRATS TO Michelle Zelig (Australia), RCI certified Master Relationship Coach for Singles,
who bumped up her commitment to Relationship Coaching this month by becoming our newest LIFETIME
MEMBER.
CONGRATS TO Jennifer Ballard (Australia) who writes:
”Recently here in my home region here in Australia, a local radio was doing a 1 month
fundraising campaign hoping to raise 1/2 million for the local Children's Hospital.
With a call out to local businesses wanting to help, I organise a special 'Single Mingle and
Dinner' and using my own data base of clients from my Singles Dinner Group (meets twice a month)
and through the Radio Stations assistance, I raised almost $1,000.00, last Friday night.
I'd like to thank fellow RCI Coach Brad Thomas who travelled over an hour to help me on the
night.
I hope I've provided food-for-thought for any other RCI Coach to look into their community
first and find a way to give back through an event like this and watch your data base grow....as
mine did!!!
CONGRATS TO Lynne Michelson (St. Louis, MO) who writes:
”New name of my enterprise: ‘ConnnectSTLouis.' I am finding this name appeals to
men versus my ‘Dance of Life Coaching.' I had 9 men and 3 women at my talk last night!
CONGRATS TO Yvonne Chase (Brooklyn, NY) who writes:
”Last week I had a session with the best coach I've ever had - Salila Shen. After our
one hour session, my energy level was up and I was ready to put the gas in my tank and get this
thing going. Then, all of this happened yesterday:
I made a connection with the only speed dating organization in NYC geared to African-Americans
and I will be their relationship coach/expert at their events and website.
I was also given the task of writing a monthly column for another website similar to match.com
- first article due tomorrow.
Tonight, I am doing a brief talk/introduction at one of their speed dating soirees in the
city and next week I will do a talk at their 1-year anniversary party.
Also, I made a connection to a radio talk show host here in the city. He does a 3-hour call
in show on relationships. We discussed having me on his show one day a week similar to how Dr.
Phil was on Oprah one day a week.
One last thing, I was interviewed yesterday by a writer that was working on a relationship
piece for BET.com. She referred me to a publicist because in her words "people need to
know who I am and what I do and what I have to say. You are very articulate, have a lot of energy
and personality - this could really be big for you." I called her referral this morning
and we are going to talk this afternoon.”
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Our coaches are certainly committed, talented, and making things happen! It is my honor to be
part of this community that is making such a difference in the lives and relationships of others.
Have a win you would like to share? Any graduates from your RCI coaching 'find the love of their
life and the life that they love?' Please pass it on and we'll celebrate it!
Feature Article
Bliss Coaching - For Couples Who Are Ready For
"Happily Ever After," Right Now!
By Paul & Layne Cutright
Almost all of our cultural stories about romantic relationships lead to “happily ever
after”. Only there are no accurate stories about what happily ever after looks, sounds or
feels like. The images we do have come from advertising and the movies, where successful couples
have one climactic moment of ecstasy after another in one never ending party, wearing great clothes,
driving expensive cars, traveling to exotic places, etc. And how exactly does that relate to your
everyday life?
In the real world, intimate relationships evoke our most powerful and intense feelings. These
feelings run the gamut from despair to bliss, and it is safe to say that more people are acquainted
with despair than bliss. All of the hopes and dreams of relationship bliss that fill the hearts
of those newly in love are often soon dashed for simply not knowing how to consciously create
and maintain a successful relationship. Luck and hope are simply not sufficient to produce relationship
success.
STAGES OF INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS
People sometimes get a faint hint of bliss early in a relationship when they are intensely attracted
to each other and filled with hope and new possibility. This attraction usually moves into a power
struggle stage, and if successfully resolved, the relationship progresses to stages of “cooperation,”
“healing” and “processing.” But, what lies beyond healing and processing?
Some people never move beyond these stages.
If a couple successfully learns to share power in their relationship and they are able to cooperate
in life consistently, the next stage that opens for them is “synergy.” It is in the
synergy stage that the possibility of abiding bliss opens.
WHAT IS BLISS?
What is bliss? The dictionary defines it as, “happiness, ecstasy, spiritual joy”.
Bliss Coaching then, would be helping couples experience an ongoing state of happiness, ecstasy
and spiritual joy.
Of course, nothing in life is constant except change. Relationships are dynamic and alive. So,
bliss coaching is about experiencing happiness and ecstasy that is punctuated by the occasional
learning experience, rather than the other way around.
IF IT FEELS RIGHT, IS IT ENOUGH?
Many people have the idea that if their relationship feels right, happiness and living happily
ever after will somehow magically happen all by itself, just like in the movies. This usually
leads to bitter disappointment. Couples spend thousands of dollars planning and executing their
wedding, a single climactic event, and make absolutely no preparation for the days, months, years
and decades that follow.
We propose that if bliss is to be grounded in the everyday reality of our relationships, then
our consciousness needs to expand in two directions; upward into your essential spiritual nature
(what we call “Super Conscious Mind”) and simultaneously downward into your subconscious
mind, the memory banks that store your unresolved wounds and cultural programming.
BARRIERS TO BLISS
The presence of bliss in your life is a natural expression of your higher nature, but it does
not simply fall into your lap. Bliss is something you reach into life and claim, or that you prepare
yourself to receive. However, there are many barriers to bliss. When you know what those barriers
are and how to move beyond them, it is much easier for bliss to flower in your relationship.
These “bliss barriers” affect what you perceive and how you interpret situations
and conversations. Ultimately, the force of these barriers determines the choices you are able
to make and the results you get to experience in your relationships. Bliss Coaching offers distinctions,
insights and practices that act as a bright light, illuminating these barriers so you can more
easily go beyond them.
CO-CREATING BLISS
As you transcend these barriers you enter a new sphere of refined love, wisdom and peace that
brings lasting intimacy and joy into your life. This is the fulfillment of the dream relationship
that most of us hold so dearly in our hearts. And you will experience this state of bliss as a
spontaneously arising, co-created experience within your relationship.
Know that relationship bliss really can be yours. Although it is not the picture of happy relationships
painted by commercial and entertainment media, it is something far richer and more fulfilling.
You need only be willing to step upon the path of learning and take each step as it comes. And
it doesn't hurt to have a wise and loving guide in the form of your very own relationship coach
to support you along the way!
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Best regards,
David Steele, MA, LMFT
Relationship Coach
CEO and Founder of Relationship Coaching Institute
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