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-------------------------------------------------------------- 1. FREE TRAINING BEGINS DEC 3RD Learn how to coach singles, couples, and develop a successful Relationship Coaching practice. "Introduction To Relationship Coaching"- 3 one-hour teleclasses, Tuesdays, Dec 3, 10 and 17; 9:00am pacific/Noon eastern. Please share with your colleagues! To register, visit 2. FREE EFT E-BOOK! JANAUARY TRAINING SCHEDULED “Emotional Freedom Techniques: The New Approach To Personal Power That Works!” is available from RCI thanks to Layne and Paul Cutright of Enlightened Partners, who have pioneered the use of EFT with relationships. Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) are simple and effective ways to handle undesired emotional reactions. They are easily learned and you can teach them to your clients. We have had glowing feedback about Paul Cutright and his EFT training
from participating RCI coaches. The next EFT basic training is January
6 - 10 at 8pm EST, followed by the EFT Advanced training January 13 -
17 at 8pm EST. -Basic EFT 5 Day TeleTraining go to http://tinyurl.com/1nky -Basic AND Advanced TeleTraining (best discount) go to http://tinyurl.com/2ali To download your FREE copy of “Emotional Freedom Techniques: The
New Approach To Personal Power That Works!” go to www.RelationshipCoachingInstitute.com/resourcecatalogue/ebook-eft.htm
3. HAPPY BIRTHDAY RCI! In October we celebrated the 5th birthday of RelationshipCoachingInstitute. Time sure flies! RCI started as a pilot project for singles in my office September 1997, and made its public debut the following month. Relationship Coaching Institute was established a few years after we began providing relationship coaching training to helping professionals, based upon the work we were doing in RelationshipCoachingInstitute to help singles and couples have successful relationships from a coaching perspective. RelationshipCoachingInstitute today is the first and largest worldwide relationship coaching program for singles and couples, and Relationship Coaching Institute is the first and largest worldwide relationship coaching training organization. Happy Birthday to us! 4. RCI COACH CONFERENCE CALLS ~ Nov 5; Singles Coaching with Laurie Cameron Our conference calls are FREE to RCI Coaches, and fall on the 1st, 2nd,
and 3rd Tuesday of each month, 2:00pm pacific/5pm eastern. The RCI Member
Support Forum meets Mondays at 3pm eastern. 5. RESULTS OF “NAME THAT PERSON!” Last month we asked the question “What do you call a man or woman you are in a pre-committed relationship with?”, and we have had a good time trying to answer it. What are the alternatives to “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” when you are mature adults who are a couple, but not (yet) committed? This is a very real lapse in our language! Since we coined the term “Pre-Committed Relationship,” we consider it our responsibility to weigh in with an appropriate label as well. We have been playing with Beau, Significant Other, Very Special Person, Main Squeeze, Gentleman Friend or Lady Friend, Attache’, Special Relationship, Sweetheart, Friend, Special Friend, Love Interest, Beloved, etc. "SPECIAL FRIEND" was the top choice of our coaches, and in my opinion makes a very good statement for a pre-committed relationship ("we are a couple, more than friends, exclusive but not yet committed"). You could dress up "Special Friend" to be "VERY Special Friend" as well. We can now help confused adult singles that feel awkward using "boyfriend/girlfriend" by letting them know that Relationship Coaching Institute officially endorses the title SPECIAL FRIEND or VERY SPECIAL FRIEND for a pre-committed relationship! Of course, everyone is free to use their preferred language, and this could be revisited in the future if we come up with a compelling alternative. Welcome New RCI Coaches!The following coaches joined our ranks this past month: Monique Belton, Ph.D., Huntington, NY THANK YOU for telling your colleagues about RCI! Congrats!CONGRATS to Yvonne Chase (Brooklyn, NY) for earning RCI certification as “Certified Relationship Coach for Singles” CONGRATS to Colleen DeCew (CO) for doing a great job representing RCI at this year’s ICF conference in Atlanta. Thanks for being our ambassador, Colleen! CONGRATS TO Lynn Minuk (Alberta, Canada) who writes:
CONGRATS TO Linda Marshall (OH) who writes:
--------------------------------------------------------- Our coaches are certainly committed, talented, and making things happen! It is my honor to be part of this community that is making such a difference in the lives and relationships of others. Have a win you would like to share? Any graduates from your RCI coaching 'find the love of their life and the life that they love?' Please pass it on and we'll celebrate it! Relationship Coaching Technology:Top 10 Guidelines Of Relationship CoachingBy David Steele (with much input from RCI coaches)
Coaching empowers by assuming our clients are the expert, fully capable of achieving their goals, and focuses on supporting them into action. Consulting typically provides advice and solutions, while therapy typically focuses on insight and emotional issues. Because these approaches are so different, the coach should be clear about these distinctions, educate clients about them, and make conscious choices about the nature of the coaching relationship that are in the best interests of our clients.
Relationship coaching is not effective when isolating our clients’ relationship goals from the rest of their life, such as work, family, friends, wellness, spirituality, etc.
Sharing expertise with our clients as a coach is very different from any other helping relationship. It is necessary to address our clients’ relationship skills and knowledge deficits, however we do so in a way that supports them to discover and own their truth.
We support our clients to focus on meaning, connection, and long-term goals, in addition to helping them find a partner or improve their existing relationships.
Our relationships are our mirrors. The Law Of Attraction dictates that what is inside shows up on the outside. We help our clients take responsibility for their relationship outcomes and be the partner they want to have.
As stated above, we assume our clients are the expert and honor their truth and agenda. While we have judgments, we do not impose them on our clients. We lead our clients through a process of discovery in which they are empowered to make the relationship choices that are right for them.
An ethical coach values being of service above all else, holds the coaching relationship sacred, and does not allow a personal agenda to interfere with doing so.
We skillfully help our clients become aware of the connection between their attitudes (beliefs, interpretations, etc), choices and consequences, and support them to make their own judgments and decisions about them in light of their Vision, Purpose, Requirements, Needs, and Goals.
We value using the opportunity while single to make conscious long-term relationship choices, and believe in the power and necessity of commitment to make those choices work and be fulfilling.
We know that we can only help our clients along paths that we have traveled ourselves, and no further, so we must continually strive to be conscious and intentional in our lives and relationships. This includes furthering our own learning and development by working with a coach or mentor, on-going training, and other means. Practice Tips:How To Get Published -Now- The fastest way to the top of your profession is to write a book. The fastest way to publish a book is electronically as an e-book, however most authors and readers prefer the “old fashioned” hard or soft cover version. The fastest and most affordable way to get published the old fashioned way (non-electronic) is by using a "Print-On-Demand" company. This article includes: 1. WHAT IS "PRINT ON DEMAND?" "Print-On-Demand" (P.O.D.) means that the company will prepare your book for publication, print and send hard or soft cover copies to order. The author typically retains full rights to the book and there is usually no minimum or cost after the initial set-up. Typical included services are: Most offer additional services for an added fee: 2. FIVE STEPS TO PUBLISHING A P.O.D. BOOK STEP ONE: WRITE BOOK (easier than you might think) 3. PRINT ON DEMAND PUBLISHERS http://www.xlibris.com http://www.iuniverse.com http://www.writerscollective.org http://www.greatunpublished.com 4. SELLING YOUR BOOK P.O.D. can make it fast, easy, and affordable to publish your book, but you will most likely sell most of your books through your own efforts, even if you pay for their marketing assistance. All of the marketing methods mentioned in "How To Build Your Ideal
Practice In 90 Days" are effective in promoting your book, such as: 5. KEEPING PERSPECTIVE Few authors generate significant income from a book. While the passive income will be welcome, the best value of publishing your book is to give you instant credibility with the public, even better than having "Ph.D." after your name! Even if your book sales are not very high, your book will open doors and attract opportunities and clients in ways you can't possibly predict. Getting reporters to quote you, TV and radio shows to invite you as a guest, complementary businesses to partner with you, and much more, will be tremendously easier when you have the cachet of a published author. If you can write an article, you can write a book, so go for it! HOW TO BUILD YOUR IDEAL PRACTICE IN 90 DAYS Invitations:
How do you like our newsletter? PAST ISSUES OF THIS NEWSLETTER CAN BE FOUND HERE The purpose of this newsletter is to connect, support each other, inform, and build a strong community of coaches dedicated to helping people find fulfillment in their lives and relationships. This monthly newsletter is written for the benefit of RCI Relationship Coaches, and is available to interested others. Feel free to share this with a colleague. Your submissions and feedback are welcome! Our Mission: To provide the tools, information and support to help singles find the love of their life and the life that they love, and to help couples co-create fulfilling and lasting Life Partnerships. Copyright notice: This newsletter is copyrighted and all rights are reserved. Feel free to share with others as long as our contact information and authorship is included. U.S. Library of Congress ISSN#:1530-3055 To subscribe to our newsletters, visit here. |
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